EJ grew up in Northport, Long Island, where his passion for lacrosse began at the age of 9. He started playing in local leagues, quickly developing his skills and love for the game. After excelling through middle school and high school programs, EJ graduated from Northport High School in 2000, having solidified himself as a standout player. He went on to play long-stick midfielder (LSM) at West Point, where his leadership and athletic ability continued to shine. During his time at West Point, EJ was part of teams that made NCAA tournament appearances in 2002, 2004, and 2005. His commitment to both academics and athletics led to his graduation in 2005.
Following his time at West Point, EJ served his country in Iraq in 2010, applying the discipline and teamwork he learned through lacrosse to his military career. His experiences overseas further strengthened his resolve to give back to the community and help shape young athletes.
Now residing in Wilmette with his wife, Sarah, and their three children—Teddy (JTL ’36), Caroline, and Grace—EJ remains deeply involved in the sport. He is dedicated to sharing his love of lacrosse with the next generation, not only as a coach but as a mentor, helping young players develop the skills, discipline, and passion that have guided his own life.